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MSU-Meridian mental health professor ā€˜defeats the giant’ with book release on narcissistic personality disorder

MSU-Meridian mental health professor ā€˜defeats the giant’ with book release on narcissistic personality disorder

Contact: Marianne Todd

MERIDIAN, Miss.—It took 40 years and a Mississippi State doctorate in counselor education before Rosanne Nunnery saw the giant that had knocked her down her entire life as the child of a parent with narcissistic personality disorder.

ā€œAfter that, it became my passion to help people recognize narcissistic abuse and how to help themselves heal from that exposure,ā€ said Nunnery, who in March celebrated the release of her new book ā€œDefeating the Giant: A Guide to Recognizing and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse.ā€

Rosanne Nunnery
Rosanne Nunnery (Photo by Marianne Todd)

An MSU-Meridian associate clinical professor of counselor education, Nunnery signed book copies for readers earlier this month at the Riley Campus Bulldog Shop.

Realizing her trauma was a gift to help others, Nunnery took the vulnerable step in sharing the pain of her upbringing.

ā€œIt lowers the person’s self-esteem, and they lose their identity,ā€ Nunnery said of the mental health condition indicated by inflated self-importance. ā€œThis book walks you through building that identity back up.ā€

The mental health condition’s name originates from Narcisus, a Greek mythological god who couldn’t stop looking at himself, she said. People may suffer for years in such relationships because the narcissist thinks nothing is wrong with them, she added.

ā€œIf they are in treatment, it’s usually court ordered,ā€ she said, explaining that the disorder is created from a dysfunctional childhood. ā€œThey lack awareness, insight and empathy, and they think others are the cause of everything wrong in their lives.ā€

The 190-page book details common behaviors of those with NPD and how they might hide their illness.

ā€œThey can have a public face and a different face at home,ā€ Nunnery said. ā€œThey’re very manipulative. You won’t recognize them at first, and that’s why people get duped. They look for people who are vulnerable.ā€

Nunnery said she had a sudden moment of discovery after earning her Ph.D. in counselor education at Ļć½¶Ö±²„that helped her identify her parent’s condition.

ā€œThen my book grew in my heart and in my head for about 10 years before I actually started writing it,ā€ she said.

ā€œIt takes enormous courage to share a traumatic lived experience to help and educate others,ā€ said David Buys, associate vice provost of Health Sciences and interim head of campus for MSU-Meridian. ā€œThis tremendous effort speaks to our faculty’s commitment to positive mental health and enhances our understanding of the effects of untreated illnesses and healing processes.ā€

Nunnery’s effort guides future counselors, said Kim Hall, professor and associate dean of MSU-Meridian’s Division of Education.

ā€œHer courage in sharing her story offers valuable insight,ā€ said Hall, whose division trains mental health counselors.

In 2024, Nunnery contracted with Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, a division of Bloomsbury Publishing. ā€œDefeating the Giantā€ retails for $35 and can be found in most bookstore retailers and online at Amazon.

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